🎙On this episode of The Winners Paradigm, host Alundas Havens invites special guest Max Nijst to delve into a variety of topics surrounding personal development and growth. Max shares a personal anecdote about getting upset with his wife for making them miss their gym session, leading to an important realization about the need to apologize and be present in the moment. The conversation touches upon the significance of understanding that mistakes are often unintentional, the power of adopting a positive mindset, and the speaker's resistance to taking antidepressants. Max also imparts wisdom on saving a marriage by focusing on personal growth rather than specific actions, and the importance of actively listening to one's partner and paying attention to the small things. The conversation takes a turn towards seeking validation, navigating preoccupations, and surrounding oneself with the right energy for success, with the speaker seeking tips from Max. Max opens up about their own recovery journey and the impact of making significant changes in their life. The listener gains an understanding of the speaker's personal journey and their transformation over the past six months, working towards avoiding divorce and becoming a stable and present father. The significance of surrounding oneself with the right people as a source of guidance and support is also discussed. Max's expertise in substance abuse counseling is underscored, along with their emphasis on mindset and accountability in staying on track. Throughout the episode, Max's website, mexnijst.org, is mentioned as a valuable resource for further updates and support. The speaker expresses gratitude towards Max as a supportive ally during their recovery journey, acknowledging their availability and understanding when dealing with challenging emotions. The episode concludes with Alundas Havens providing the listeners with the contact information for Maxniest, reinforcing their reputation as someone who is supportive and available for help.
Timestamps:
00:02:02 Changing everything is crucial for growth.
00:07:16 Learning communication, honesty, and self-improvement is key.
00:13:58 Embrace challenges and learn from them.
00:17:46 Learn to listen and prioritize love.
00:23:12 Friend advises against job offer, offers support.
00:25:31 "Just DM me, I'll talk you through anything."
You’ll Learn:
1.How did the speaker's realization about the importance of being present in the moment impact his relationship with his wife?
2.What lessons did the speaker learn about making unintentional mistakes and the importance of understanding in relationships?
3.How did the speaker's mindset shift contribute to his motivation and drive for personal growth?
4. Can you relate to the speaker's resistance to taking antidepressants? What are your thoughts on seeking alternative methods for managing anger and emotions?
5. Why is it important to focus on who you become rather than just how you go about saving a marriage?
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